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7 Types of Toxic Relationships

Perhaps you notice that there is an established or emerging pattern in your relationship(s). You might have noticed it in someone else’s relationship. Here are some toxic relationship patterns to help you pinpoint or name what you struggle to put words. While these are not definable mental health disorders, they can help us identify unhelpful or toxic patterns that need to be corrected or stopped. Also, someone may have more than one toxic trait.

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Hollywood Love vs. Real Life

As a young girl, did you remember watching all the princess movies and romcoms. Love was magical and romantic. It was a fairytale! Relationships were depicted as sexy, romantic, passionate, and full of desire. Love was passion and being head over heels. Is this how we should measure love? If passion fades or changes over time, does this mean you are not in love?

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The Art of Co-parenting with My…

Parenting is hard enough but throw in other circumstances like single parenting due to death, illness, separation, divorce, or work. What about parenting with an ex-partner? This can get messy and downright ugly. It can also be an opportunity to display respect, problem-solving, teamwork, and excellent communication skills to your child(ren).

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Parenting With Self-Compassion

Motherhood is hard. We can be very self-critical and society can be very critical of us. In this article you will learn about the definition of self-compassion and how to incorporate more self-compassion into your daily life.

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Teaching Kids: How to Make and Maintain Friendships

When you were a kid or teen, did someone ever teach you what it meant to be a good friend? Bad friend? How friendships come and go? What to do when you feel peer pressure? What about the importance of having all different kinds of friendships? Navigating friendships is complicated because relationships are hard work! It is especially hard for kids because I don’t think there is a lot of explicit instructions other than the typical ‘how to share,’ “how to say please and thank you,’ ‘waiting in line,’ and ‘how to take turns.’ What about the more nuanced social skills like what to say when you feel betrayed, how we show kindness, how to forgive and repair a relationship, how to talk through conflict, and how to walk away from a friendship with respect.

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Big Feelings: A How to Guide to Help Parents Manage Tantrums

“I hate you. I don’t love you anymore.” Have you heard this from your child(ren)? How do you respond after they says something that is hurtful? Do you wonder what to say or do, so they don’t do this again? It is really hard when you hear these types of things from your child. We often personalize and attribute it to our parenting. You may ask or say things like, “What am I doing wrong,” “Where did I go wrong,” and/or “I have failed them.” Others may think what is wrong with my kid.

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